Freedom of expression !

The expression "freedom of speech" has been widely misuderstood in recent times. My motivation to right this blog entry is an experience of mine that affected me pretty much. I fail to understand some women at times. Their emotions and the way they express them is kinda confusing.Everyone can have an opinion but that would no way mean that anyone can throw any filth at another person. I feel the base of every unpleasant comment about another person is sheer jealousy. I cant find any other reason to gossip about one another. Of course we all gossip, we gossip about something that we like about some we dont ! So i feel, the filt is created in each one's heart and it comes out and stinks...Why do we need to form a judgement about someone? why do we need to pass comments? why do we need to gossip? why do we have to be sarcastic? well, its the filth that is formed in our hearts...we must decide we need to be jealous and have a stinking heart :)

"No good man ever became suddenly rich"...well there's a way :)

Sounds good huh !!! i am dead serious pals.... :) *conditions apply ......

and the conditions are :

1. You need to be born as a male in human species...whether you have a spine on your own ; its a different issue altogether....so no worries for most of 'em out there...
2. You need to be of the "marriageable age" ....well, the definition of such an age totally depends on how desperate are you to get richer...
3. You need to be born in the political territory of India
4. You need to be a man with lot of relatives who are relatively jobless and mentally ridiculous ; preferably much interested in getting you richer
5. The man needs to be utterly shameless becuase it will surely help him and his family in the bargaining process later .... :)

once you fulfill the above mentions conditions, you are fit to be a perfect candidate to get richer in no time with added cookies like a well educated, reasonably good looking, well mannered girl who will have to take care of him like how his mother did when he was breastfed and work as usual and make money for him and his family. Yes ladiees, i am talking about a man and his family who came to me with a " marriage proposal" .....The boy looked and sounded ok to me and we both supposedly liked each other and virtually decided to walk down the aisel , if everything else goes well...and the "everything else" wasnt working out well for me...the reason is, the proposed groom's family wanted to know who would inherit my house and my property after my parents death !!!! WTF !!! We are not even close to the wedding matters...and they are talking of my parents resting in peace !! :( :(,......further they clarified that their son is "UK educated" and will be earning 3 times as me...well, so....??? so they would like me to fill the gap so that i dont feel that i am a financial burden for him in future....very considerate i must say :) :)

(*well, i just did not understand how will i be a "financial burden" for him/his family as i am not a woman who is just sitting at home watching sas bahu serails .....)

I am a woman with reasonable understanding of how a marriage should work...and how should a man take care of his woman...i used to belive or liked to belive that a man thinks of marriage, only when he is physically,mentally,emotionally and financially prepared to have a family on his own...i was feeling miserable that my parents had to go through something so ridiculous, just because i was born as a girl child....they have given me everything that i could ever dream of..and worked all their life to give me a comfortable living....anyhow, i was just not ready to be a part of this unfair game; neither do i want to be a part of a family who has such ridiculous idea about how their son should end up with a girl with lot of money....i was being insulted, and i said goodbye to my prospective groom forever, ignoring his uncle's further negotiation attempts...And trust me, i feel really really good....:) :) And when i shared it with one of my British friends (it took me few hours to just explain her the so called dowry thing, and how we need to "pay" money to get married) she was so agitated and wanted to slap my prospective groom and his uncle :) i regret the fact that i spend few hours of my beautiful life worrying about such a useless affair...

PS: I am not being a feminist here, neither a social activist....but a simple woman with a reasonable amout of self respect and a lot of love for her parents .